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This Will Make You Successful No Matter What Your Dream Is

Aug 20

Mia

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Okay! Heads up! ✨

This is going to be a short, cozy little pep talk for anyone chasing a BIG OL’ (or new lol) dream.

Maybe your dream is starting an online business, becoming a full-time creator, or something completely different (hello, cozy coffeeshop fantasy).

If you’ve been wondering…

  • Can I *really* make this happen?
  • Is it possible for me?

Well, the short answer is of course yes.

You absolutely can do the thing you want to do.

 

It’s not about having the perfect strategy to get there.

Here’s the thing → it’s not a ✨magical✨ niche, a viral post, or a 15-step plan that will make you successful.

No luck.

No right moment.

But it does come down to 3 simple things.

Let’s dive in! 😍

 

 

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1. Consistency

Blegh! Okay…

I know, that word again.

Every marketing guru seems to be yelling, “Be consistent!”

Yeah okay we get it!! LOL 

But the truth is… they’re not entirely wrong.

Consistency is showing up for your dream regularly, even if it’s just 10 minutes a day.

When I first started my secret blog, I got up at 5 AM (ish) every single morning to write, brainstorm, or tweak my website.

Some days I had hours, some days I had… well, 10 minutes.

In the end, it all adds up, and I wouldn’t have a six-figure online business had it not been for my cozy morning routine (which I still have, btw).

Consistency compounds over time, in skill, in confidence, and in results.

Repetition and patience will be the recipe for basically making all your beautiful dreams come true.

Even if you *just* have 10 minutes, spend those 10 minutes wisely and invest in your dreams!

Everyone has 10 minutes, I mean, come on. 🤭

 

 

2. Commitment

Your dream isn’t a vague “someday” wish.

It’s actually a real thing that already exists in your life, you just haven’t fully built it yet.

That means treating it with the same respect you’d give a 9-to-5 job.

Show up every single day.

Just because it hasn’t happened yet doesn’t mean that it won’t.

Because you’re not just dreaming, you’re running the early days of your future business, career, or creative life.

This is where YOUR story begins.

You are the CEO of this thing now.

 

 

3. Mindset

Okay, hands up… who knew I’d say this?

If you’re in any of my programs, you’ll know how much I love talking about mindset and why it’s freakin’ impossible to have success without working on it.

Because you can have all the tools and strategies in the world… but if you don’t believe you can actually do it, you won’t stick with it long enough to see it through and get those dreamy results.

Your brain will throw mean girl Regina George thoughts at you:

  • It’s too late
  • It’s already been done
  • You’re not good enough

 

But that’s just fear, trying to keep you safe in the “known.”

Your brain is so silly and it will never want you to do something you’ve never done before (because then you don’t have proof of success).

Its job is to keep you safe.

Building a business.

Chasing a dream.

… not safe (to your brain).

But you’re building something new and amazing over here, which means doing *new* things!

And that means reminding yourself daily that you can do hard things, and that success doesn’t require perfection OR speed.

To have those dreamy results you’re after, you have to believe you can have them.

 

 

Don’t make these silly mistakes

If you want to make progress this year, avoid these traps:

  1. Only taking passive action → reading, researching, planning… but never actually implementing.
  2. Jumping from idea to ideashiny object syndrome is real, and it will slow you down and kill your dreams (very dramatic, but very true)
  3. Obsessing over money too soon → focus on building your foundation first (which is, if you’re building wealth online, start with your people, your audience)
  4. Comparing your pace to others →  most “overnight successes” were years in the making or just plain luck (and this is not the norm, but it *is* what the algorithm seems to be favoring and why you’re seeing them on your feed)

 

 

The truth about success

Most people give up right before the results show up.

That’s usually how it goes ^

So definitely don’t be one of those people, k? 🤭

If you can…

  • Stay consistent (even for 10 minutes a day)
  • Commit like it’s already yours
  • Manage that mindset of yours

…you’ll be shocked at how much can happen in a year.

Now, off you go, take your 10 minutes today and just do something related to your dreams. ✨ 

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Hey it's Mia!

I started a secret blog back 2018 because #scaredofwhatotherpeoplethought but since then, I have grown it into a bloomin' business, and been able to fully step into the cozy pajama lifestyle (the introvert dream) and be financially FREE bay-bee. My jam is now to help you do the same by doing business and marketing the introvert-friendly way ⎯ the cozy way ⎯ because duh! Basically, let’s make you more money with your content.

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